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The Pros and Cons of Divorce Mediation in Texas: Part 1

We want to keep it ‘friendly.’”
We can’t afford to spend a lot of money fighting about the terms.
It doesn’t seem right for a judge to decide.

If you’ve expressed any of those sentiments about your divorce, then divorce mediation may be the preferable alternative to resolve any disputes about your divorce and get the papers signed with minimal conflict. That said, divorce mediation is not the right choice for every divorce—and it will save you headaches and financial resources in the long run if you carefully consider the pros and cons of divorce mediation before making a decision.

This article summarizes some of the advantages of divorce mediation. In a following article, we will discuss the major disadvantages of divorce mediation.

What Is Divorce Mediation?

In divorce mediation, the spouses choose a professional mediator to meet with them—both separately and together—to help resolve any disagreements about the terms of the divorce. The mediator is neutral, meaning that he or she does not represent either spouse’s viewpoint. Instead, the mediator’s job is to use his or her training and experience to help the spouses find acceptable compromises to their disagreements. The mediator’s suggestions are not binding.

It is important to know that many Texas counties require or strongly encourage mediation in some divorce cases, such as when the spouses cannot agree on child custody and visitation arrangements.

The Advantages of Divorce Mediation

  • Divorce mediation proceedings are completely confidential. If you can agree on all the terms of the divorce using mediation, then you present the divorce court judge with a stipulated divorce agreement, and there is no need to air any of your disputes—regarding children or money—in public.
  • Divorce mediation can be less expensive than an adversarial divorce case. If you have one or two specific conflicts, but agree on all other details, a mediator may be able to efficiently find a compromise after listening to each spouse’s concerns.
  • You retain more control over the terms of your divorce. If you end up in front of a divorce court judge with unresolved issues in your divorce, the divorce court judge will make the decisions for you, period, end of story. With divorce mediation, you keep more control over all of the issues in your divorce, including division of property and arrangements for the children.

Stewart Law, PLLC, located in Baytown, Texas, has provided legal counsel to men and women in child custody and visitation cases for 8 years. We work closely with several highly trained divorce mediators in and around Baytown, and can serve as your legal counsel if you choose divorce mediation. For an initial assessment and consultation to determine whether divorce mediation is right for you, contact our family law firm online or call our office at
(281) 420-8020, at a reduced fee of $50.

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